Just very concerned that you are attributing motives that aren't there. You really
think that Terri and others tried to "destroy" your relationship with Nemo? Seriously? Be honest with yourself - would Terri do anything
that might hurt Nemo? Do you really think that's the kind of thing that she would do?
If you do, then I would suggest that you seriously
do not know her. Not at all.
Your reactions here are indistinguishable from those from a desparately insecure person - one who believes that any
contact someone has with an ex is a direct threat to your relationship with that person. Is this really a rational point of view?
Yours was not an offhand comment, and Terri (and others) clearly did not appreciate it. Are you honest enough to take responsibility for your fault and apologise?