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From:vegetus
Date:June 27th, 2009 11:57 am (UTC)
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Oh bite me... and how is my comment bitching and bullying. Given the effort Terri and others made to destroy my relationship and friendship with Nem and others I think you're asking the wrong person that question.
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From:subtle_eye
Date:June 27th, 2009 12:23 pm (UTC)
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Care for some victim-sauce to go with that whine of yours?

Free tip: Just because you feel persecuted doesn't actually mean they're all out to get you.

Your behavior is loud, obnoxious, frequently abusive and in this case uncalled for. Given the past history
between you and Terri, it's hard to see your comment as anything other than harassment and snideness.

You may call your attitude toward life enthusiastic activism or relentless optimism or whatever you like.
Here, we call it rudeness and lack of manners. Go learn some.
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From:vegetus
Date:June 27th, 2009 12:44 pm (UTC)
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I don't think anyone is out to get me, perhaps you should maybe question why you were so aggressive in the first place.

You accused me of bullying when all I did was offer a different point of view (which wasn't aggressive). If you had actually asked for more information or even been polite in your comment I would have happily gotten into discussion with you as I have done below and above.

It was your comment that was full of accusations and was rude and aggressive - perhaps it is you who is paranoid? If you look back to your comments towards me they are alot more negative and aggressive than mine were to begin with.

And quite frankly if people are going to be rude and bad mannered towards me I'll do the same to them.
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From:arthwollipot
Date:June 27th, 2009 12:55 pm (UTC)
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The fact that you did not see your comment as rude and insensitive doesn't mean that it wasn't.
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From:subtle_eye
Date:June 27th, 2009 01:06 pm (UTC)
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Given the effort Terri and others made to destroy my relationship and friendship with Nem and others
Given the way I watched alot of people turn on Nemo a few years ago
I don't think anyone is out to get me

One of these phrases is not like the others.

I accused you of bullying because there is no context of civility between you and Terri in which your comment can be considered. Ergo, it is an attempt to vilify, impugn and belittle. I was aggressive because that is how you stop a bully, they're so caught up in the bullshit inside their heads that they do not respond to logic.

And while we're talking about the voices inside your head, I never stated you were paranoid. That was arthwollipot. I know all us vile peoples out here persecuting you look and sound the same, but do try to keep up.
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From:arthwollipot
Date:June 27th, 2009 12:26 pm (UTC)
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Wow - paranoid much?
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From:vegetus
Date:June 27th, 2009 12:44 pm (UTC)
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Not particularly- you?
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From:arthwollipot
Date:June 27th, 2009 01:04 pm (UTC)
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Just very concerned that you are attributing motives that aren't there. You really think that Terri and others tried to "destroy" your relationship with Nemo? Seriously? Be honest with yourself - would Terri do anything that might hurt Nemo? Do you really think that's the kind of thing that she would do?

If you do, then I would suggest that you seriously do not know her. Not at all.

Your reactions here are indistinguishable from those from a desparately insecure person - one who believes that any contact someone has with an ex is a direct threat to your relationship with that person. Is this really a rational point of view?

Yours was not an offhand comment, and Terri (and others) clearly did not appreciate it. Are you honest enough to take responsibility for your fault and apologise?
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