Jun. 27th, 2009 @ 01:04 am
Wasn't a big deal for me and for several people I know. Never has been and I grew up in the same house for most of my childhood so wasn't used to change either. Ditto travelling. Most of my friends were scared/excited for me whilst I was "this is cool, but not a major deal". Apparently 19 year old women traveling to small tropical islands in the middle of nowhere is something to be marveled. I have seen people give up their careers, partners, lives etc because they couldn't cope with change and that is much, much more of a travisty in my view.
I agree about the last bit, and I can prove it! *moves to Wollongong for wife's job*
Hehe, you are an awesome husband :) I've let a partner go because they couldn't handle change which was gutting as I thought he was life partner material but I couldn't bare to be stuck in a rut int he future because they couldn't handle new situations, I also had a relationship influenced negatively because their ex and a few select friends couldn't handle change either. So yeah I wouldn't hate it if my friends weren't supportive of my right to change and grow. Ditto, even though I miss alot of people who have moved away from me I still support them because they are wonderful and I want them to experience new situations and have much joy in their life, even if I'm not around.
And imagine if we didn't like change. It means we wouldn't be road tripping :D (yes I'll email about dates)
Sorry to hear about the break-up. What a bummer.
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